You want revenge. Being with an upset boyfriend or getting revenge by hooking up with another person are never good idea. It will bring you a lot of damage and confusion whether it is with the person you hookup with or with your boyfriend. Sleeping with someone else to get back at your boyfriend is only a way to draw attention, also a terrible way which cannot raise attention, but only to deepen your contradictions. Sexual activity is a way to feel be loved for many women. Hookup is not a very good symbol for confident girls with high self-value. If you are hurt by your boyfriend, you can choose to stay with your family or friends to ease your pain and vent your anger. Give yourself a day or two and don’t do anything you might be regretful later in your life.
You are not at into him. Do not feel guilty or stressed for refusing to tinder hookup with someone you don’t really like. Such circumstance may happen to many girls. I have a new boyfriend. I think he is fun and we started from friendship. Then he doesn’t want to stay in the friend zone. I know I am not that into him and I don’t really want to bbw dating with him, bu8t I did, because I feel terrible to refuse him, but now I feel even more.
Instead of compromising, you might as well find someone else for him. If he is upset for being in your friend zone, ask him what kind of girl he is interested and start to look out for him. Distract his attention from you. He might won’t push you and give you pressure, but if he does, dump him. Obviously, he is not a good friend from the start.
Dating or hookup with someone out of pressure or pity is just an awful behavior as putting pressure on someone so as to hookup with or date them. Nothing good can come out of it. Even if you think you are going to be a good boyfriend for her, it is not right to develop a relationship in this way, not healthy. For girls, if you don’t like him, just save yourself some trouble and do not consider this relationship. It will only bring you more trouble.
He is forcing you into it. You are not going to endure long in an aggressive relationship. Why bother to start it? Do not give in only because he is pushing you into it. No matter what he says and what he does, there is nothing can persuade you into a relationship but only your heart tells you to. Remember, only you can direct your decision and behavior. Don’t agree to a relationship just because he bought you some fancy gifts or your friends suggest you to, no matter how tempting the offer is.